My sister recommended the movie “Once.”
It took my husband and me about three months to see it, meanwhile paying Netflix for the privilege of having it sit atop our television. When we finally took the time to see it, I was struck by the movie’s simplicity.
It’s about an aspiring musician with a broken heart trying to start a music career, and a Czech immigrant making her way in Ireland. What touched me were how these two people, who had so little monetarily, were truly living their lives and pursuing their dreams in a simple, yet profound way.
It made me think about how much I have, and how I should try to live life fully in the now, instead of waiting for more. I often think, mostly unconsciously,
My kids grow up;
We win the lottery;
I have a successful book published;
I appear on Oprah;
We live abroad for a year --
THEN,I’ll be happy.
I wait for these things today.
Not so long ago, I wanted to find love, get married, have children, and buy a house. I have all of that now, yet, the credits never rolled along with a moving soundtrack in the background when I got what I thought I wanted most.
I always find new things to covet.
I think it’s part of the human experience to yearn for more. As I start to feel the hunger pains for a future different than my present, I pause.
I try to notice one thing that I’m enjoying now. Today, it was my boys jumping and splashing in the little blow-up pool in our backyard. Yesterday, it was my youngest son “stealing” strawberries off the counter faster than I could cut them up.
I continue to have an insatiable craving for something new, different, more, than what I already have.
Perhaps one day I will find happiness and contentment in the present; aware that everything I have is already a gift.